Friday morning is one of the most loved days by the local commuters. The compartment was getting crowded with every minute. Ladies were talking with the other ladies. Some were claiming seats, while some were playing Candy crush on their phones. A few women on the door were fighting with each other. Some girls were sitting with their eyes closed. Some were busy watching videos online. Among all of this, there was a girl dressed in white tank top and black jeans. She was pretty in her own way. Her big eyes were attractive but another thing in her was attracting everyone’s attention were the tears in her eyes.Continue reading
We all use some kind of public transport, every now and then. Along with us there are few other people too, who use the public mode of transport. In Mumbai, the most convenient mode of transport is Local Trains. In the peak hours they are crowded and chaotic. I travel in the ladies compartment and board the train from a station called ‘Bhayander’. The train I board has more than 75 ladies in one compartment. Huge number, isn’t it? The struggle, the crowd, the accomplishment of getting a seat is really too much.Continue reading
Women are known to have a lot of mood swings. If a girl is angry – it is ASSUMED that she is going through her menstrual cycle and her hormones are acting up. It is never the fault of any other person around the girl – it is just that her ‘hormones are everywhere’. Well yeah our hormones are every, so much that it jumps from us to the person along with us; and they also start acting up – LIKE WOMEN.
Men have worse mood swings. They don’t even have the reason of Periods for their mood swings. Their mood swings vary from: Lack of Sleep to Too much work.
Here are some things a girl thinks of, when the guy gives the following reasons for his mood swing:
“Didn’t sleep much, baby”: When a guy doesn’t sleep much, they have mood swings, a girl thinks, “First of all, your last seen was visible baby, so yeah you were probably online for quite some time. Science says, being on the phone for too late in the night messes with your sleep schedule. Also, the harmful rays from your mobile keeps you attracted to bad dreams.”
“I am sleepy”: When a guy mentions how sleepy he is, a girl would react, “I know, it is because of the above things I told you. Also, for me you are making up a story and I feel you are sleepy because you don’t want to go out with me on a Saturday. And hey, don’t blame me for thinking all these things; it is nothing but Root Cause Analysis on the basis of your past behavior.”
“India lost the match”: When the guy says their favorite team lost the match, we react in such a way, “Oh yeah? And that’s why you have a change in your mood? Makes sense. Cricket is the religion, half of our country men follow and yes it is a valid reason for your mood change. Next time, when I am upset because Kim Kardashian and Kanye West had a fight, don’t you dare tell me that, this isn’t a reason to be upset!
“Petrol charges have gone up”: In India, the petrol charges go up and of course the other rates also keep on rising. When guys give the economic condition of the country as the reason behind his mood swing, we got to stand up for ourselves and say, “The taxes, gas prices and other prices goes up for you and me. If the petrol charges have gone up for you, the charges for the vegetables and the pulses have gone up for me too. So I am supposed to be as upset as you are, but I am here all ready for you so that we can go and help the government a little more by paying more taxes in the high-end restaurant. But no! I am the dumb-head here
Whoa! I’m here not with a Girl-O-Pedia Post. But I am here with a Rant! I’m being very clear that this post is all about my personal rant and if you’re not in the mood for that, please ‘Click’ on the ‘Close’ Button, right away.
Stress gets onto you when people take a professional thing, personally. Also, when they let the personal problems affect their professional life. We aren’t robots; we are human beings with FEELINGS. We all feel bad and happy and victorious and other things. Even though we all want to stay positive at work, we can only stay positive when the environment is positive.
I am a positive person, most of the time and believe in Law of Attraction, tremendously. When in a negative environment, I tend to get affected for some time and then I become my normal being. But the duration while I am affected, I am the ‘Bad Guy’, not on purpose, though.
At the moment, I am in a room of five people. All of us are not on the same page, we all have differences and we all ‘almost hate each other’. Why? No one knows!
Even if I want to sit and try to figure out the Root Cause Analysis of the whole situation, I can’t. Everyone comes from a different state of mind. But I expect that if I keep my personal issues outside the office doors, so should everyone else. This isn’t too much to ask for, is it?
My work place lacks two things – Unity and My BFF Shrabani! If we have these two things, this place will be survivable for me! I am the cry baby but I can’t see other girls crying for a benefit. I can cry when I am low. I can’t cry when I want people to feel I am LOW.
Anyway, there are petty things on which maximum people (including me) fight at work. These are the issues that shouldn’t have arrived at the first place.
I think I need to be the Quiet Ashmita, so that people don’t take my bubbly nature for a ride.
Today is Friendship’s day. I am not the person who would actually celebrate this day with 100 of people. I am a one friend only, kind of friend. I have just one friend, best friend, soul mate, partner in crime (Call me a bore). On this day, while I am sitting in my empty apartment, I can think of the good old college days. This was around 10 years ago! Sh*t! I am old!Continue reading
After the patch up from a fight with your boyfriend, a girl does decide, “I will not reply to his text for 4 hours”. However, we fail every time. For us girls, texting is a big deal. There are multiple reasons for a girl to get angry, when a guy she loves doesn’t revert to her texts.
As it is you guys won’t type paragraphs and would reply in one word or two words, so how much time does it takes to reply to those texts from her?
She has planned the date, done the booking, and informed you about the details and all she is asking for are ONE EFFING CONFIRMATION.
You were the one who started texting her when you’ll started dating and texted non-stop with no sleep in eyes, but now replying an ‘Okay’ seems a lot!?! Vague!
We, as in girls, consider texts as no calling mode. So when you say, you can’t talk, you never cleared that Texting is talking.
What irritates us more?
You have all the time to text to your guy friends asking if the football night is still on, but when it comes to the girlfriend, it is HARDWORK to reply to a simple text. I understand that we girls never stop at one text, but we also understand if it is a boy’s night out! If we are still questioning you on your Boy’s night out, it is because, the trust factor is a little low! In order to not get any texts on such occasions, you have to build the trust strongly.
During Sexting, texts never seem to be too much for guys! Isn’t it weird – the same girl and the same amount of texts but the response changes?
Four hours to reply to one text. How difficult can it get to reply “Hi” to a simple “Hi”? And what’s the use of replying, “I am sorry baby”, when you really aren’t sorry.
You have the time to sext her and immediately after the sexts over, you fall asleep? How’s that even possible? It is a little suspicious when you aren’t replying to a: “Baby when you are planning to sleep?” Or “How was your day, today?” but are available to reply to a: “Here’s what I am wearing now.”
You are online, I can see. You are not replying for one minute – acceptable; two minutes – understandable; five minutes – considerable; but one hour and you’re still online! What have you slept with your WhatsApp On???
Women are complicated for men, I understand that. But texting was invented by a man – Friedhelm Hillebrand and it is very easy to use the messaging system. It isn’t a task to talk to your girlfriend via messaging, especially when she is going through a rough day. She is not expecting to meet you and talk to you in person for hours, but she expects timely responses on the text message.
A humble request to all the boyfriends and husbands reading this – Please reply on time!
A request to all the ladies out there – please understand that men are not good with words. Pun intended.
I don’t understand why we girls can’t be like boys. If you notice, men have a different and much stronger bonding with their buddies; however, we women tend to fight like cats. We lack Girl Love a lot in our day to day life.